Channeled Messages: On Relationships (Part 1)
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-Beginning of channeled message-
Humans are complicated beings.
Humans are simple beings.
Living in a simple world.
Living in a complicated world.
That has been made to look complicated.
That has been made to look simple.
Those that come into ones life are there for a reason.
Relationships teach, allow one to grow, help, heal and create.
Relationships become overcomplicated.
This is because you have two different view points, desires, ideals and values trying to come together and be one.
You cannot be one.
You are two beings coming together to create.
But you are still you and they are still they.
You cannot change them.
You cannot make them do something they do not wish to.
You cannot dictate their future.
You cannot create their future.
One runs into problems with relationships when they believe that that person is there to complete them.
One runs into problems with relationships when they think the other person is supposed to act in a certain way and they do not.
You are always placing your beliefs or ideals onto those you are in relationships with.
Then when they do not act accordingly, there is conflict.
You are not upset about what they had done.
You are upset because their actions did not line up with what you wanted.
To have a good relationship of any kind, you must know who you are.
To have a good relationship, you must be aware of what your values and ideals are.
To have a good relationship you must understand that you are projecting what you want onto another human being.
When two people come together and both have an understanding of who they are, what they want, where they want to go and are comfortable with independence and knowing that the other person may want or do different things, that is when strong relationships form.
It is not about controlling.
Many people in relationships try to control one another to varying degrees.
You want for that person to like you or love you.
You will conform with whatever that means to that person but that can only last for so long.
Many people think they have to become something else for someone else.
You can’t be someone else and expect a good relationship.
Defining who you are, what you want, where you want to be etc. before you enter any relationship will give it the foundation for longevity.
You must love yourself first and foremost.
-End of channeled message-
Elora channels a group called “HU” who are higher dimensional beings and she has channeled them from many years. The channeled messages are from their perspective.
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